What could I do? I was invited to my sister,s place for x-mas,assuming my husband would go to meet myside of t?

I was in invited to my sister,s place for x-mas for a family get together,assuming my husband would go with me to meet my family a week later after accepting the invitation and got a ride offer from my Aunt I confirmed with my husband,He said he will not go,because she did not visit me in the hospital nor call me personally


cousin ] to save long distance she live in Oshawa and I in Toronto.What could I do? I was invited to my sister,s place for x-mas,assuming my husband would go to meet myside of t?
If you can forgive then why can't he? Why does he feel he needs to fight your battles and yet you are OK about how they treated you?





You were wrong to presume he would go without even asking and I suspect this is the reason he has chosen not to go, if so. Then why is he lying about it?





Sit down and have a talk with him, tell him you are OK about your sister not visiting you or calling you when you were ill and ask him what the real problem is.What could I do? I was invited to my sister,s place for x-mas,assuming my husband would go to meet myside of t?
I dont think neither have anything to do with each other. I mean I can understand how your husband feels but are YOU ok with it? I mean if you are, he just needs to be your husband, be quiet and go to the party you both were invited to. Let the past go. :)
Go and enjoy the family. My sister didn't call me, either, when I gave birth. I never thought of that until I read this post but it doesn't bother me.
Your husband is a dolt if thats the best he can come up with for an excuse as to why he won't go.





Go.





Let dummy stay home. Probably will have a better time without him anyway.