What should I do if anything? My husband has a pic of himself and ex in his bedside stand.?

She is dressed like a hoochie mama. We have been married 10 months and they have been divorced/separated several years.What should I do if anything? My husband has a pic of himself and ex in his bedside stand.?
That's a slap in the face and a total lack of respect.





If she's an ex, she should not be displayed in your house. That needs to be taken down immediately.





If he doesn't take it down, tell him he needs to go live in the picture with her, because you can't live here with that in the house.What should I do if anything? My husband has a pic of himself and ex in his bedside stand.?
What do you mean ';what should I do IF ANYTHING';??? Are you sure you're yourself around him? Because it sounds like you don't say what's on your mind...like you don't want to make waves. Don't start your marriage off like that. You don't have to be rude, just tell him how you feel. Always be honest about your feelings.
LOL is this a trick question?!!!





my exboyfriend had a wife as well and he had a picture of me and him my phone number saved in his cell under ';wifey'; he would call me behind her back telling me how much he missed me and loved me, and would break up with her if i take him back, does this answer your question?!!!!!!!








its different if you guys were just dating but married !!!!!!!!!!!
its just a picture it doesnt mean that he wants her back or still cares for her let it go
That is disrespectful to you and completely inappropriate. Marriage is based on respect and sometimes you need to demand it and show your serious about it.





Throw the picture out and tell him not put anymore up that are similar or they will get tossed out as well.





Old photos of ex partners that want to be kept should be put in a storage area out of reach of the current family and not spoken about.





The photo on the nightstand should be of you and him.
omg omg wtf why does he have a picture of her!!!!!!
Ha it has got to go no freaking way would it be in my house anywhere, people say ohhhhh it don't mean anything well if it doesn't why does he have it. If he likes how he looks on the picture then cut her off as i did with some of mine. Several years and he is still keeping her picture for what ? the next time the two of you go to bed get in just before him looking sexy and have her picture right in the middle of the two of you, and when he say what the blank is going on ? tell him its where it is when its in your drawer between the two of you. It has come between the two of us because it bothers me. When he say it don't mean anything then say GOOD then you should have no problem in getting it the hell out of my house. Not many women would put up with this, not many men either its not right nor respectful to you..
If you don't want the picture then remove it yourself and tear it up. If your husband asks about it then tell him that you know nothing about the picture.
That picture would have been the first thing to go. Why is her picture not yours there. Maybe he hadn't thought about it, but I would have placed my picture there without saying a word. You need to take action...
yeah...you should of put a stop to that chit long ago....it's one thing if he keeps mementos from his past in a shoe box in the back of his closet....but on his nightstand....that is RUDE to you! I would tell him it needs to go...how would he feel if you kept something special from one of your ex's in your everyday life?
Take matters into your own hands and put it in the cat box (that's what I did! ha ha ha ha ha), the toilet, a dartboard, or other various places that could trash the thing. If he gets pissed, divorce the douche! Sounds to me like he may not be over it...
Tell him to get rid of it! It's disrespectful to you and you marriage and starting y'all off on a bad foot if he carries on this way.





Stay strong.
girl please! i agree with the 2nd answer that should of been fixed before you got married but lets just say you both forgot it was there or something. 1..confront him about it now if he says he didn't know it was in there ok fine but make it clear that you will be throwing it away because it is not acceptable. if he has a problem with you throwing it away then you have a problem...yes its just a pic but what would he want to keep a memory of him and his ex for? kwim...good luck
Replace it with a photo of you and him.
Move the picture and see if he notices. If he notices he keeps it there for a reason! If he does not notice he probably just left it there and forgot about it!!
don't be a jealous idiot. if its sitting in a drawer what harm is it causing you? NOTHING. its just part of his past.
i agree


i have pictures of my ex's


but not in plain sight


they are in boxes in storage


i have a picture of us current


not ex's


tell him to clear it


or you will leave him


there is no room for negotiationn on this one


it is simple respect for you


the guy is an idiot if he did not know this


and why would you marry that?
I would have fixed that before getting married. Any man of mine should not have pictures of other women around. Especially on his bedside table. Just plain strange.
Yeah, this situation sounds really familiar to me except I was the chick in the photo. I wouldn't do anything. A woman's first response is to get all defensive but think about it for a moment. The two of them shared good times. The two of them were friends above all else. The pic represents a memory. We all have them but society believes a situation such as this is taboo. It's disrespectful and so on. Not true. I personally wouldn't mind. I would realize that the pic is a memory. A part of his past. You are his present, his future. It all boils down to your own insecurities. If you were confident in the solidity of your relationship then this would not be an issue.
put a picture of you and your ex by the bed side or a pic of your ex boyfriend see how he reacts. :)
well that proves he still has feelings for her