Take a class together, travel, go skydiving, etc. Share new experiences.
After awhile we are so familiar with our partners that it seems there is nothing left to surprise us. Seeing them in a new situation reminds us what attracted us in the first place, and helps us appreciate them as a person, not just our partner.What can a wife do when she stops loving her husband? Any tips for her for loving him again?
Love is not a feeling it is a choice
The question is does she still want to be in the marriage or if there is some one else.
My friend is celebrating his 30th something wedding anniversary next month. AMAZING!
And he says,
It is about you and your partner
And how important your vows are, your marriage is
Sometimes happy
Sometimes angry
BUT THERE ARE CERTAIN THINGS PEOPLE SHOULD NOT DO
Don't spend the night else where
Don't leave out of anger
It is okay to sleep on the sofa,
It is okay to be angry for a month
But you both need to be committed to the marriage
All those happy pictures are the memories for the times you had to work through problems.
Otherwise people would have quit elementary school by the 3rd gradeWhat can a wife do when she stops loving her husband? Any tips for her for loving him again?
Just leave without cheating and taking him to the cleaners. My wife cheated and then ran up a bunch of bills before she left with another guy. I'm stuck paying them off and that kind of thing is a monthly reminder that doesn't go away for a long time.
Counseling.
Or you can stop holding out.
Get drunk and f*ck his brains out and start from there.
Sometimes women think sex isn't a major part of a relationship, but that intimacy says a lot.(And then there is an oppourtunity for dialog..)
Give them a gift..the following book and tell them to read a chapter a night together and discuss it.
';The Five Love Languages'; by Gary Chapman
This book has actually brought 1000's of marriages back from the dead.
There is nothing you can do...Once that love is gone is it hard to recapture..He must have done something to kill that love...you don't just stop for no reason..You probably just need to move on and let it go and start over.
you need to go to a therapist and find out what is wrong with you it is not your husband it is you.you think it is greener on the other side i got news for you wrong.
It comes a time in a marriage where you will no longer experience romantic love, but just love.
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