Saturday, January 9, 2010

Why does my husband prematurely ejaculate and what can we do about it?

The first few weeks that we were having sex, he would last FOREVER, almost too long. But now that he is comfortable with me, he will ';get off'; within 2 minutes sometimes less . I just wondered if there is any supplements he can take that will make him last longer or is it just something i have to deal with?Why does my husband prematurely ejaculate and what can we do about it?
just make him go a second time, most guys won't got that fast twiceWhy does my husband prematurely ejaculate and what can we do about it?
No, you don't have to deal with it. Premature ejaculation is usually a function of conditioning. The best way to overcome it is by training.





When he feels as though he is about to finish he should stop calm down for a few seconds and restart. This is during sex AND masterbation.





Also, varying his intensity early in the act to minimize his stimulation early on will slow things down a bit.





Lastly, foreplay is the enemy of premature ejaculation. Too much foreplay means too eager a participant which can mean hairtrigger disease.





If you don't use condoms this can also decrease the sensation of the act giving him a bit more stamina.





Try these things they should help.
I have a friend who suffers from this (and no it is not me it is actually a friend) what he does is he gets his girlfriend to jerk him off and then they play around for 5 minutes and then have sex. he lasted longer and in his words ';she won for the first time after that';





as well as that if your husband is not comfortable about doing anything serious to help the problem you dont have to tell him your jerking him off to stop the pre ejac





and lastly wear a condom when you have sex. a recent study (and by that i mean me and 6 friends) we found that wearing a condom slowed us down by at least 30 seconds. so try it and have fun
Make sure you are real wet before he enters...the less friction, the more he can slip and slide and last longer





There are also ejaculation control exercises and the male multiple orgasm technique, they have both helped me last much longer...check this out: http://www.mistermanpower.net/Multiple_Male_Orgasms.cfm
Condoms reduce sensitivity of the penis. Alcohol also helps. You can also buy numbing cream that comes with a condom, or seperately





If you need a cost effective alternative, you could try banging a desk drawer closed on it beforehand

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