Saturday, January 9, 2010

How do you cheer up a friend who's husband left her?

I need funny stuff to make her smile and look forward to her new single life.How do you cheer up a friend who's husband left her?
are you kidding? you think she needs cheering up??? it's us who are still with our husbands who need cheering up...I would trade places with her anytimeHow do you cheer up a friend who's husband left her?
what she will need now is for you to listen to her..really to be honest nothing can make her feel better except for time... what you can do is maybe go to the salon with her take her shopping try to make her feel good about her looks... shes feeling insecure right now i am sure and trust me divorce IS one of the hardest things anyone can go through.. I would try to have alot of girl time out.. her seeing you with your husband or you talking about your married life family life will make her miss him soo much more..
Listen to her. Thats all you have to do. Dont leave her alone in the begining. She needs to be around you. Also keep male company away from her as this could lead to more problems. I f she has kids then they will also keep ber busy. Let her try knew things that she never did befor. Keep her interested in some thing she was never alowed to do with her husband eg:gym or dancing. Let her reinvent herself and enjoy life with out a relationship. Good luck my friend. You are one in a million.
Tell her that she is a lucky lady..


I agree with Kate.. we are the ones that need to cheer up.


Above all the ones with more than 25 years married !!!!!!!
Put on a funny red nose and a clown wig and you'll have her in tears in a flash...owww i don't know its tough only time does that kinda healing
Alimony?
Sorry , can't help with the funny stuff .....would you like my honest opinion ?





I reckon if you do what you do best ...... be a good friend , a listening ear , a shoulder to cry on , someone who cares , it will be more useful than any number of jokes!
Read cheese





here u go you smiled....... now do the same for her....
hey bautiful





tell her all the positive things ... shes free !! and you can go out with her and talk o her... just always be there for her
get her a dildo
Just be there for her and listen to her. You can't cheer her up right away, just let her know you are there for her.
Talk to her -- visit her alot. There is nothing worse than breaking up with someone and being left alone. She needs company.
Take her out and tell her funny stuffs and speak whats worse than leaving a husband she'll understand that her situation is not that bad! good luck
first you have to cheer me up and tell me who is she:





Second tell her that she is lucky, at least she got married, and now she can spend all his money by herself, and be single once again!!!





Single life is not soo bad!! its hard @ nights when no one is there to cuddle, thats why they invented big stuffed bears with beer belly's.
what is she like ? funny ? shoping person ? what are her hobbies ? what deos she love most ?
just be there 4 her!
Your job isn't to cheer her up. It's to keep her company and provide a shoulder to weep on. Divorce isn't a laughing matter. Ignoring it (i.e. joking is a diversion) doesn't make the pain go away.
tell her that she is not alone, and she still has you for a friend

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