the husband does not work, with very very few excetptions, she is deeply unhappy, however when it is the other way around, the husband thinks nothing of supporting wifey. Why is that ?Why do women resent giving part of their income to the husband, while husbands do not ? When a wife works and?
Fereshte:
';If these numbers are to be believed, it means there must be a great deal of women (the mothers) who are willing to support the fathers financially.';
How did you arrive at that conclusion? How is that statistics have any external validity? Men are SAHP coz of the economy. Pray what was the number 2 years ago?
And you have missed the point the questioner is making:
men don't think twice about being the sole bread winner, because they don't consider that as ';SUPPORTING'; their wives. They think its but obvious.
What he is asking is, why the same mentality doesn't exist in women, yet? And there are no statistics out measuring women's mentality.
The only indicator of such is the fact that 80% of divorces are initiated by women and financial problems are the most important factor.Why do women resent giving part of their income to the husband, while husbands do not ? When a wife works and?
I agree. No one thinks twice about a male physician married to a women who works part time as a secretary or is a stay at home Mom. A female physician will usually marry a male physician, and if one were to marry a part time retail worker people would look askance at it.
I think it is because for years the it was expected that men of a certain class would support their spouse and ';bring home the bacon';. Women learned to evaluate men based on their job, since back then they had few career options themselves.
Since then a lot of effort has been expended to get people to accept the notion of women working outside of the home in traditional ';male'; occupations. No one has really fought for acceptance of men who do NOT work outside of the home. Women never really changed how they evaluated men when women's lib began.
This is, in my opinion, a big weakness of the feminist movement. Super ambitious career men often have the advantage of ';stay at home mom'; spouses who handle child care and put their careers second. This lets the man focus on work. Women tend not to respect men who are not career focused. This means they marry a man with an equivalent career, and have to either make time for child care or not have kids.
1) that's not necessarily true. some men do resent having to work, and some wives don't.
2) if we're going to generalize anyhow, maybe it's because when still do stuff when they aren't working--like cleaning the house, raising the kids, running errands, etc, and men only sit around playing video games. (hey, if we're gonna do gross generalizations, why not go all the way, eh??)
edit: so what's your source that this is how the majority are? scientific studies or personal experience? just curious. cuz if we're doing personal experience, and assuming that makes something a majority in the rest of the world and not just one's individual world, then see #2 because that's my personal experience...
Okay since you experience memory loss- my hubby was a mere law student when we first got married. That was his job (along with basic care taking of our apartment building). I provided the income while he was working toward a goal. It wasn't a problem. However, if he had been home playing video games while I worked it would have been.
You seem to be asserting that men today don't care if their wives work or stay home. That is not true. With 85% of women %26lt;65 years whose children are grown, are in the workforce. Some 70% of women with children %26lt;12 years are also in the workforce. I am sure these men would not want these women to quit their jobs on a whim.
hahahaha....I think you must have split personality with where your questions come from. Clearly we have never seen questions on here from men complaining about giving women money or them being ';gold diggers'; if they don't work. I have no problem supporting my husband financially in a time of need and would not resent him as long as he was doing something with his life and that is how it would work if I was unemployed as well. We both believe in being productive citizens.
Maybe he is squandering her income?
If he is staying at home and taking care of the house, kids, meals, etc. then he should get an allowance to be able to care for all of those things plus have a little for himself, you know to get his hair done and maybe to get some sexy pj's. :)
you my dear of all people jsut stated that we should except the differences in genders... lol I dont agree with what the truth brings or how society has made men and women but no body can deny the truth... why is it that way? well I believe that women wan to be taken care of... most anyways... not the other way around. I love doing dishes and laundry, and even get upset when my guy does it for me... lol that is my role... and he would be sad if ever he thought i didn't think he could provide for us... so my money remains mine and his laundry is also mine lol... men are just as head strong as us ladies!
I didn't resent the fact that I was giving him money... I resented the fact that he wasn't even looking for a job, and I can support myself, I can't support him... Plus, he had major anger issues about it.
I don't know any women who feel that way.
I am and will perfectly happy to work outside the home with a work at home or stay at home husband!
Ok, where are you getting your information? Evidence, please. Or at least a little back up details. More and more men are feeling they can be Stay at Home Dads. Right now, almost 20% of fathers are SAHDs. ( http://www.rebeldad.com/stats.htm ). And some 37-49% of men have considered it. (scroll down on link given.) If these numbers are to be believed, it means there must be a great deal of women (the mothers) who are willing to support the fathers financially.
As a career woman, I have already discussed with my man the possibility of him being a SAHD. If I make enough money, he says he's willing. In return, I would be eternally grateful as I don't have the fortitude to be a SAHM. I would NOT be ';deeply unhappy.'; Would I miss that time with my children? Sure. But so does a father when he leaves.
You argument is null and void in a rapidly changing environment where men are given more and more social freedoms. Welcome to the new world.
BratRich--Did you look at the link? Those numbers, many of them, ARE from more than 2 years ago. Go back and clink on the links for each set of numbers and actually READ the freaking articles instead of making assumptions.
Friday, April 30, 2010
I am looking for a song to give to my husband in a picture collage from his daughters.?
I do this every year: I have used Butterfly Kisses, In my daughters eyes, and am looking for something special this year. Any ideas times running out?I am looking for a song to give to my husband in a picture collage from his daughters.?
how about cinderella by steven curtis chapman... that song makes me cry
and it even made my dad cry
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus鈥?/a>I am looking for a song to give to my husband in a picture collage from his daughters.?
what a wonderful world by louis armstrong. i did this once with a family video, and i still cry everytime i watch it. :)
does it have to be a song? can it be a poem?
i made fathers day card this year using my daughter's handprints done in paint.... and found some cool poems on the net (i think i googled handprint poem). the one i used was
';This is my hand, my hand will do,
A thousand loving things with you
And you will remember when i am tall
That once my hand was just this small';
How about thew song ';Daddy's Hands'; by Holly Dunn??
I remember daddy's hands
folded silently in prayer.
And reachin' out to hold me,
when I had a nightmare.
You could read quite a story
in the callous' and lines.
Years of work and worry
had left their mark behind.
I remember daddy's hands
how they held my mama tight.
And patted my back
for something done right.
There are things that I'd forgotten
that I loved about the man.
But I'll always remember
the love in daddy's hands.
Daddy's hands were soft and kind
when I was cryin'.
Daddy's hands were hard as steel
when I'd done wrong.
Daddy's hands weren't always gentle
but I've come to understand.
There was always love in daddy's hands.
I remember daddy's hands
workin' 'til they bled.
Sacrificed unselfishly
just to keep us all fed.
If I could do things over,
I'd live my life again.
And never take for granted
the love in daddy's hands.
- Holly Dunn
Isn't She Lovely by Stevie Wonder or
Ready Set Don't Go by Billy Ray Cyrus.
My Little Girl by Tim McGraw
Ready get set dont go by billy ray cyrus hope i helped
You are so beautiful to me, Joe Cocker
You are the sunshine of my life, Stevie Wonder
Sunshine, Bob Denver
Yeah, I know, they're 30+ years old, but they're still great.
You Are So Beautiful by Joe Cocker
how about cinderella by steven curtis chapman... that song makes me cry
and it even made my dad cry
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus鈥?/a>I am looking for a song to give to my husband in a picture collage from his daughters.?
what a wonderful world by louis armstrong. i did this once with a family video, and i still cry everytime i watch it. :)
does it have to be a song? can it be a poem?
i made fathers day card this year using my daughter's handprints done in paint.... and found some cool poems on the net (i think i googled handprint poem). the one i used was
';This is my hand, my hand will do,
A thousand loving things with you
And you will remember when i am tall
That once my hand was just this small';
How about thew song ';Daddy's Hands'; by Holly Dunn??
I remember daddy's hands
folded silently in prayer.
And reachin' out to hold me,
when I had a nightmare.
You could read quite a story
in the callous' and lines.
Years of work and worry
had left their mark behind.
I remember daddy's hands
how they held my mama tight.
And patted my back
for something done right.
There are things that I'd forgotten
that I loved about the man.
But I'll always remember
the love in daddy's hands.
Daddy's hands were soft and kind
when I was cryin'.
Daddy's hands were hard as steel
when I'd done wrong.
Daddy's hands weren't always gentle
but I've come to understand.
There was always love in daddy's hands.
I remember daddy's hands
workin' 'til they bled.
Sacrificed unselfishly
just to keep us all fed.
If I could do things over,
I'd live my life again.
And never take for granted
the love in daddy's hands.
- Holly Dunn
Isn't She Lovely by Stevie Wonder or
Ready Set Don't Go by Billy Ray Cyrus.
My Little Girl by Tim McGraw
Ready get set dont go by billy ray cyrus hope i helped
You are so beautiful to me, Joe Cocker
You are the sunshine of my life, Stevie Wonder
Sunshine, Bob Denver
Yeah, I know, they're 30+ years old, but they're still great.
You Are So Beautiful by Joe Cocker
Why does my husband act like a jerk towards me when drinking?
okay me and my husband are a young married couple..but recently we have been drinking together and it seems everytime we drink around friends he loses respect and acts like a total jerk..but when we drink alone together he is all lovey dovey..i dont get it!!wat can i do when we go out to drink that this doent happen?Do we just not drink around people?Why does my husband act like a jerk towards me when drinking?
Theres a saying...A drunk person speaks a sober mind.Keep that in mind!Why does my husband act like a jerk towards me when drinking?
He's a jerk even without the alcohol my dear. You know the old saying. '; For instant jerk just add alcohol and the foreskin will rise right out of his shirt and over his head. Thats why he needs to wear a tie to keep the foreskin from coming up and making him a ********. Hopefully when he passes out you'll have your lipstick ready, then you can paint on his *********** faceand get a picture of it. Have one of your friends put a hotdog in his shorts and rub it on your BF face when he's passed out.
How bout you don't drink at all. I'm not ';holier than thou';; I just know that alchohol is a truth serum. Your husband shows signs of having some resentment and unresolved issues. Plain and simple - It comes out when he drinks. I recommend counseling.
explain to him what a jackass he is when drinking in front of friends (i'm sure its just to show off)...he may not realize he is being a tool because he is under the influence...So tell him...then he can do something about it.
its a male thing i think
when we drink together
we pay out on each
other but we usually dont do that
to our wives .
i dont know what you can do sorry.
Some people get nasty when they drink.
They can't handle it.
cause his an alcoholic and needs some *** kicking
Theres a saying...A drunk person speaks a sober mind.Keep that in mind!Why does my husband act like a jerk towards me when drinking?
He's a jerk even without the alcohol my dear. You know the old saying. '; For instant jerk just add alcohol and the foreskin will rise right out of his shirt and over his head. Thats why he needs to wear a tie to keep the foreskin from coming up and making him a ********. Hopefully when he passes out you'll have your lipstick ready, then you can paint on his *********** faceand get a picture of it. Have one of your friends put a hotdog in his shorts and rub it on your BF face when he's passed out.
How bout you don't drink at all. I'm not ';holier than thou';; I just know that alchohol is a truth serum. Your husband shows signs of having some resentment and unresolved issues. Plain and simple - It comes out when he drinks. I recommend counseling.
explain to him what a jackass he is when drinking in front of friends (i'm sure its just to show off)...he may not realize he is being a tool because he is under the influence...So tell him...then he can do something about it.
its a male thing i think
when we drink together
we pay out on each
other but we usually dont do that
to our wives .
i dont know what you can do sorry.
Some people get nasty when they drink.
They can't handle it.
cause his an alcoholic and needs some *** kicking
When can my husband feel my baby kick?
When is it actually possible, Or well common in pregnancy, For my husband feel my baby kicking? Id like to know because i can feel him now!When can my husband feel my baby kick?
I'm 18 weeks pregnant now (3rd baby) and started feeling the baby kick at 16 weeks. Almost as soon as I felt the movement and little kicks, by husband was able to feel it too - but not with his hand on my stomach.
Like someone else said, there is always more activity and kicking from baby at night. So when we go to bed and I feel the movement, I lie on my back and my husband puts his ear/head on my stomach where I can feel the kicking. He can hear the baby moving as well as feel the movement (your face is very sensitive to touch).
My 5 year old daughter, who's very excited about the new baby, was also able to feel the kicks the other day by doing the same thing.
The key is to make sure your husband puts his ear over the exact spot - at this stage of the pregnancy, very low down, just a bit above the pubic bone.
It really is such a sweet stage and I wish I could share it with my husband every time the baby kicks. Sometimes when the baby kicks and no one else knows, it feels like a little secret between the baby and I. Still, I can't wait to have this little one in my arms and kiss that sweet face!When can my husband feel my baby kick?
If you can feel your baby kicking from the outside, you husband will be able to also.
My fiance first felt our son kicking when I was roughly 20 weeks pregnant or so and boy was he shocked!
The best way to do this is lay quietly and drink some cold ice water to get the baby moving. Then have your husband gently lay his whole hand, palm down across your lower abdomen or roughly where you are feeling the baby kicking.
Within a few moments, if you are both patient, the baby should kick a bit enough for him to feel.
I found that both my boys were more active at night. The best way my husband could feel them is for him to have no top on, and his back to you, and your belly against his back. My hubby could even feel them kicking when I was asleep in this position.
when i used to feel our baby kick at 1st i was about 24 weeks and my husband used to lay his ear to my belly for a bit but be patient and baby used to kick he could feel it more on his ear/face!
I could feel my baby around 19 weeks but my husband couldnt. he started feeling at 22-23 weeks and it was mostly at night when i was laying on my side.
im 19wks 4days and if i put my hand on my stomach when im in bed i can feel my baby kick, i feel him moving around too, its the best feelin ever
I can't remember exactly but I think it was around week 19 or 20.
for me its 23 weeks ish
I'm 18 weeks pregnant now (3rd baby) and started feeling the baby kick at 16 weeks. Almost as soon as I felt the movement and little kicks, by husband was able to feel it too - but not with his hand on my stomach.
Like someone else said, there is always more activity and kicking from baby at night. So when we go to bed and I feel the movement, I lie on my back and my husband puts his ear/head on my stomach where I can feel the kicking. He can hear the baby moving as well as feel the movement (your face is very sensitive to touch).
My 5 year old daughter, who's very excited about the new baby, was also able to feel the kicks the other day by doing the same thing.
The key is to make sure your husband puts his ear over the exact spot - at this stage of the pregnancy, very low down, just a bit above the pubic bone.
It really is such a sweet stage and I wish I could share it with my husband every time the baby kicks. Sometimes when the baby kicks and no one else knows, it feels like a little secret between the baby and I. Still, I can't wait to have this little one in my arms and kiss that sweet face!When can my husband feel my baby kick?
If you can feel your baby kicking from the outside, you husband will be able to also.
My fiance first felt our son kicking when I was roughly 20 weeks pregnant or so and boy was he shocked!
The best way to do this is lay quietly and drink some cold ice water to get the baby moving. Then have your husband gently lay his whole hand, palm down across your lower abdomen or roughly where you are feeling the baby kicking.
Within a few moments, if you are both patient, the baby should kick a bit enough for him to feel.
I found that both my boys were more active at night. The best way my husband could feel them is for him to have no top on, and his back to you, and your belly against his back. My hubby could even feel them kicking when I was asleep in this position.
when i used to feel our baby kick at 1st i was about 24 weeks and my husband used to lay his ear to my belly for a bit but be patient and baby used to kick he could feel it more on his ear/face!
I could feel my baby around 19 weeks but my husband couldnt. he started feeling at 22-23 weeks and it was mostly at night when i was laying on my side.
im 19wks 4days and if i put my hand on my stomach when im in bed i can feel my baby kick, i feel him moving around too, its the best feelin ever
I can't remember exactly but I think it was around week 19 or 20.
for me its 23 weeks ish
How much does it cost for a family of 3 (husband, wife and 3.5yr old boy) to live in Reading?
House rent, council tax, water, electricity, groceries, gas, etc, etc all included...How much does it cost for a family of 3 (husband, wife and 3.5yr old boy) to live in Reading?
Reading is in an expensive area of England but it has its more affordable districts. Not everyone needs to live near the university or on the riverbank. Out of town is Winersh and there are other suburbs and ';villages';.
If you are renting accommodation, then you should allow 拢850 a month for a decent apartment/flat - furnished or part-furnished. Council tax, electricity, gas and water charges will come to about 拢1800 a year; say 拢150 per month. Shopping is relatively cheap if you avoid M%26amp;S food and designer clothes, and allow 拢125 per week; that's about 拢550 a month. Entertainment, driving, passtimes etc cost what you want to spend. We allow 拢150 a month, not counting the annual holiday.
That adds up to about 拢1700 each month to keep three people fed, healthy and sheltered. That's 拢20,400 a year, which means that you need a pre-tax household income of about 拢26,000. That's less than you would need in Oxford or Maidenhead but more than in Slough. Hope this is useful.How much does it cost for a family of 3 (husband, wife and 3.5yr old boy) to live in Reading?
A lot more than me living in Cumbria that's for sure.
Plus I've got wonderful scenery and am not surrounded by whinging southerners!
have a look on rightmove.co.uk to check out house and rental prices. the other costs should be the same as you use now
About $12.00.
Reading is in an expensive area of England but it has its more affordable districts. Not everyone needs to live near the university or on the riverbank. Out of town is Winersh and there are other suburbs and ';villages';.
If you are renting accommodation, then you should allow 拢850 a month for a decent apartment/flat - furnished or part-furnished. Council tax, electricity, gas and water charges will come to about 拢1800 a year; say 拢150 per month. Shopping is relatively cheap if you avoid M%26amp;S food and designer clothes, and allow 拢125 per week; that's about 拢550 a month. Entertainment, driving, passtimes etc cost what you want to spend. We allow 拢150 a month, not counting the annual holiday.
That adds up to about 拢1700 each month to keep three people fed, healthy and sheltered. That's 拢20,400 a year, which means that you need a pre-tax household income of about 拢26,000. That's less than you would need in Oxford or Maidenhead but more than in Slough. Hope this is useful.How much does it cost for a family of 3 (husband, wife and 3.5yr old boy) to live in Reading?
A lot more than me living in Cumbria that's for sure.
Plus I've got wonderful scenery and am not surrounded by whinging southerners!
have a look on rightmove.co.uk to check out house and rental prices. the other costs should be the same as you use now
About $12.00.
How can we acquire a residence visa in Dubai? My husband will be transfered there in a permanent position.?
My husband's company will be transfering my husband in their Dubai office, its a permanent position. He'll be leaving soon. Is there a possibility that we can also join him there? Its really hard when families are apart, we have a son and we really wanted the family to be together. What are the things we have to do (legal actions) so we can also be with my husband.. Tanx.How can we acquire a residence visa in Dubai? My husband will be transfered there in a permanent position.?
Your husband has to be completed the residence permit formalities after he reached in Dubai. Once it has been done, he can apply visa for you and son. I would suggest you to get attested your marriage certificate from the UAE embassy/consulate, at your country of origin.
I hope your husband's company will assist him to obtain your visa.
Good luck and welcome to Dubai.How can we acquire a residence visa in Dubai? My husband will be transfered there in a permanent position.?
Your husband's company is solely rersponsible for providing resident's visa for both him and you - and any dependants. You should have to do ... nothing. It will all be done for you.
Hi,
of course you can join him. Get your papers ready for your and your son's residence permit. I don't know how old your son is, but he needs a passport on his own. Then have your marriage certificate and his birth certificate confirmed.
If I would know where you are from, I could provide you with the correct steps and adresses where to send your papers, too.
You can enter the UAE on a visit visa and have this later transferred to a Residence Visa. This usually can take up to 4 weeks. If you arrive after your husband/sponsor, it is the best if you arrive after he received his residence visa as your residence visa can then be procesed prior your arrival. This option saves the extra step of converting a visit visa to a residence visa.
The HR Department of your husband's company in Dubai will apply for his and maybe also your residence visa or at least assist him with that.
Find out who issues passports, call them or send an email Also
go to your local post office and ask them.
Your husband is the one who has to arrange this. He needs to have his residence visa done (by his company) and it has to be visible in his passport. Then he has to go to one of the DNRD branches, see for locations: http://www.dnrd.gov.ae/dnrd/Transactions鈥?/a>
Requirements:
- Application form............ (available at the branch)
- Passport copy of the sponsor.....(your husbands)
- Passport copy of the sponsored.....(you %26amp; your son)
- Approved marriage contract.
- Birth certificates for the children whom under 18 years old.
For sons above 18 years study certificate from approved university inside the country.
- Work contract if he is working in private company and salary certificate if he is working in the government and his salary must not be less than 3000AED+ accommodation or 4000AED.
- Copy of the eGate card. ( http://www.dnrd.ae/dnrd/E-Services/E-Gat鈥?/a> this you arrange at the airport, but I saw you can also do this at DNRD branch in Jebel Ali: http://www.dnrd.ae/dnrd/Transactions/DNR鈥?/a> )
Fees:
- AED 100 application fees (e- form).
- AED 100 urgent application fees (e-form) (mandatory).
No deposit forWife and children
This info comes from: http://www.dnrd.gov.ae/dnrd/Transactions鈥?/a>id bare minerals eye brush
Your husband has to be completed the residence permit formalities after he reached in Dubai. Once it has been done, he can apply visa for you and son. I would suggest you to get attested your marriage certificate from the UAE embassy/consulate, at your country of origin.
I hope your husband's company will assist him to obtain your visa.
Good luck and welcome to Dubai.How can we acquire a residence visa in Dubai? My husband will be transfered there in a permanent position.?
Your husband's company is solely rersponsible for providing resident's visa for both him and you - and any dependants. You should have to do ... nothing. It will all be done for you.
Hi,
of course you can join him. Get your papers ready for your and your son's residence permit. I don't know how old your son is, but he needs a passport on his own. Then have your marriage certificate and his birth certificate confirmed.
If I would know where you are from, I could provide you with the correct steps and adresses where to send your papers, too.
You can enter the UAE on a visit visa and have this later transferred to a Residence Visa. This usually can take up to 4 weeks. If you arrive after your husband/sponsor, it is the best if you arrive after he received his residence visa as your residence visa can then be procesed prior your arrival. This option saves the extra step of converting a visit visa to a residence visa.
The HR Department of your husband's company in Dubai will apply for his and maybe also your residence visa or at least assist him with that.
Find out who issues passports, call them or send an email Also
go to your local post office and ask them.
Your husband is the one who has to arrange this. He needs to have his residence visa done (by his company) and it has to be visible in his passport. Then he has to go to one of the DNRD branches, see for locations: http://www.dnrd.gov.ae/dnrd/Transactions鈥?/a>
Requirements:
- Application form............ (available at the branch)
- Passport copy of the sponsor.....(your husbands)
- Passport copy of the sponsored.....(you %26amp; your son)
- Approved marriage contract.
- Birth certificates for the children whom under 18 years old.
For sons above 18 years study certificate from approved university inside the country.
- Work contract if he is working in private company and salary certificate if he is working in the government and his salary must not be less than 3000AED+ accommodation or 4000AED.
- Copy of the eGate card. ( http://www.dnrd.ae/dnrd/E-Services/E-Gat鈥?/a> this you arrange at the airport, but I saw you can also do this at DNRD branch in Jebel Ali: http://www.dnrd.ae/dnrd/Transactions/DNR鈥?/a> )
Fees:
- AED 100 application fees (e- form).
- AED 100 urgent application fees (e-form) (mandatory).
No deposit forWife and children
This info comes from: http://www.dnrd.gov.ae/dnrd/Transactions鈥?/a>
Will my foreign husband gain credit if I add him as an authorized user on my credit card?
My husband is waiting for his green card and has had trouble being accepted for a credit card. We want to build his credit but are unsure how to proceed. Thanks!Will my foreign husband gain credit if I add him as an authorized user on my credit card?
most credit card issuers will report authorized users to the credit bureaus. you will need to call the company because most will report as long as you have a social security number for the other person. if they don't ask for the social security number they probably won't be able to report it.Will my foreign husband gain credit if I add him as an authorized user on my credit card?
it will help him a lot, call your credit cards ( the one you have the longest and no late payments) and ask them to add your husband like authorized user. the credit scoring software credit agency use only read how long ago the credit card was open.
Since your husband is waiting for his ';green card,'; he can't get a Social Security Number (unless he wants to fraudulently use someone else's.';
Credit Bureaus keep track of credit accounts by name AND Social Security Number.
I am sure you'll find what you are looking for here somewhere:
http://credit-cards.ebookorama.com
http://finance.ebookorama.com
http://credit.ebookorama.com
http://credit-repair.ebookorama.com
if you get any luck please don't forget about me lol, hope it helped you!
As long as you can both handle the card in a responsible manner, that is a good start, yes. Also putting his name onto the household utility bills should help as well.
This will have no effect on his credit.
most credit card issuers will report authorized users to the credit bureaus. you will need to call the company because most will report as long as you have a social security number for the other person. if they don't ask for the social security number they probably won't be able to report it.Will my foreign husband gain credit if I add him as an authorized user on my credit card?
it will help him a lot, call your credit cards ( the one you have the longest and no late payments) and ask them to add your husband like authorized user. the credit scoring software credit agency use only read how long ago the credit card was open.
Since your husband is waiting for his ';green card,'; he can't get a Social Security Number (unless he wants to fraudulently use someone else's.';
Credit Bureaus keep track of credit accounts by name AND Social Security Number.
I am sure you'll find what you are looking for here somewhere:
http://credit-cards.ebookorama.com
http://finance.ebookorama.com
http://credit.ebookorama.com
http://credit-repair.ebookorama.com
if you get any luck please don't forget about me lol, hope it helped you!
As long as you can both handle the card in a responsible manner, that is a good start, yes. Also putting his name onto the household utility bills should help as well.
This will have no effect on his credit.
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